'Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.'
'The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her.
You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat.
The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours.
You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.’
”—I was literally in tears reading this, how beautiful and how fundamentally important this is to real love. Wow. (via bohaemian)
Can you post what workout you've been doing for your abs? Thanks!
Currently, im doing 50 double leg lifts, 50 crunches, 50 knee up crunches, 50 bike knees, 50 roll ups, and planking for as long as i can (which is only like a minute right now lol). But when i started only doing 20 reps of each, and slowly adding 10. Also i workout 5 days a week and rest the other 2 :) always remember to stretch out as well, even your stomach. One of my favorites is once im done with the last of my abs, i lay on the floor, and reach as far as i can with my hands and feet, like im trying to make myself grow lol.
18- what’s your biggest fear?
I thought about this one a lot. I’m a very fearful person, so i have a few. One of them being me never being able to have kids. Another would be never making it big in the dance world, and having everyone be right about me making the wrong decision. And a more recent one (because of a dream i had) would be dying. More so the fear of not knowing what happens when you die.
19- what’s your longest relationship?
Im just going to assume this mens romantic relationship, and that would be the one i’m in now. Christopher and i started dating in 2012, dated for 8 months, broke up for 4, and have been back together for 1 year and 4 months.
43- would you ever be boy/girlfriend with someone who was 10 years older than you?
I wouldn’t necessarily look for it, but if the right person came around and i felt like he was THE ONE, then yeah, i probably would.
Thanks for asking :) please ask me stuff, i’ll answer anything!
“The studio is a dancer’s home…..outside in the real world, the landscape is unpredictable and always changing, which is why we knock glasses over practicing port de bras in a kitchen, or spin down the street running into strangers.”—Kevin J. Shannon (via balletandbeautifulthings)